Therapeutic cards Val You The Voice of Values

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We all live our lives on the fast track, running from place to place, trying to fit it all in. We try to manage everything: work, family life, kids and, hopefully some spare time for ourselves.

We feel guided by some big master plan, hoping that our actions are some kind of an outcome of our values, ideas and points of view.

But how many times do we really stop to think about what we believe are the most important values of our life? When lately did we seriously sit down to prioritize our concepts and believes?

Our values represent who we really are. They reflect our personal and individual essence. Our underlying values translate into the way we express ourselves and relate to things, people, and the environment in general. Our values serve as our compass, showing us the significance of being true to ourselves.

A better congruency between our values and way of living leads to a more enjoyable and fulfilling life in general. Conversely, maintaining life habits and patterns incongruent with our personal values, leads to suffering, lack of self-fulfillment and self-realization, and makes our life miserable.

Integrity VS Friendship

Imagine a school kid during a math exam, for which he has prepared exhaustively. His best friend and desk partner, asks him to help him cheat on the exam and allow him to copy from his sheet. What would you decide to do in this case?

Some kids would define this act as a gesture of friendship and would allow it, feeling that this is their duty as a 'good friend'.

Others would not, feeling a contradiction between what they believe as integrity and their friendship. In their perception, the value of integrity might be the stronger one, and therefore 'overpower' friendship.

Pleasure VS Personal Expression VS Parent Satisfaction

Let's take another example: A junior high girl that plays the piano for many hours a day. She is very dedicated to her hobby, but yet sometimes feels the contradiction between the time she is expected to devote to the piano and her desire to spend more time with her girlfriends at the mall or just hanging out. The piano is indeed one of her ways to express herself and in that manner very important to her, but so is her social life.

Sometimes, while trying to understand the contradictions between two of our values, especially while dealing with kids, we find other values hidden inside, which involve the need to satisfy the parents. Many times there is a hidden clash between the family values we were taught to live upon, and the ones we actually perform.

   

The identification of our values, and the possible clashed between them,  is exactly the concept behind the new family game, We all live our lives on the fast track, running from place to place, trying to fit it all in. We try to manage everything: work, family life, kids and, hopefully some spare time for ourselves.

We feel guided by some big master plan, hoping that our actions are some kind of an outcome of our values, ideas and points of view.

But how many times do we really stop to think about what we believe are the most important values of our life? When lately did we seriously sit down to prioritize our concepts and believes?

 

Our values represent who we really are. They reflect our personal and individual essence. Our underlying values translate into the way we express ourselves and relate to things, people, and the environment in general. Our values serve as our compass, showing us the significance of being true to ourselves.

A better congruency between our values and way of living leads to a more enjoyable and fulfilling life in general. Conversely, maintaining life habits and patterns incongruent with our personal values, leads to suffering, lack of self-fulfillment and self-realization, and makes our life miserable.

Integrity VS Friendship

Imagine a school kid during a math exam, for which he has prepared exhaustively. His best friend and desk partner, asks him to help him cheat on the exam and allow him to copy from his sheet. What would you decide to do in this case?

Some kids would define this act as a gesture of friendship and would allow it, feeling that this is their duty as a 'good friend'.

Others would not, feeling a contradiction between what they believe as integrity and their friendship. In their perception, the value of integrity might be the stronger one, and therefore 'overpower' friendship.

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Pleasure VS Personal Expression VS Parent Satisfaction

Let's take another example: A junior high girl that plays the piano for many hours a day. She is very dedicated to her hobby, but yet sometimes feels the contradiction between the time she is expected to devote to the piano and her desire to spend more time with her girlfriends at the mall or just hanging out. The piano is indeed one of her ways to express herself and in that manner very important to her, but so is her social life.

Sometimes, while trying to understand the contradictions between two of our values, especially while dealing with kids, we find other values hidden inside, which involve the need to satisfy the parents. Many times there is a hidden clash between the family values we were taught to live upon, and the ones we actually perform.

   

The identification of our values, and the possible clashed between them,  is exactly the concept behind the new family game, We all live our lives on the fast track, running from place to place, trying to fit it all in. We try to manage everything: work, family life, kids and, hopefully some spare time for ourselves.

We feel guided by some big master plan, hoping that our actions are some kind of an outcome of our values, ideas and points of view.

But how many times do we really stop to think about what we believe are the most important values of our life? When lately did we seriously sit down to prioritize our concepts and believes?

 

Our values represent who we really are. They reflect our personal and individual essence. Our underlying values translate into the way we express ourselves and relate to things, people, and the environment in general. Our values serve as our compass, showing us the significance of being true to ourselves.

A better congruency between our values and way of living leads to a more enjoyable and fulfilling life in general. Conversely, maintaining life habits and patterns incongruent with our personal values, leads to suffering, lack of self-fulfillment and self-realization, and makes our life miserable.

Integrity VS Friendship

Imagine a school kid during a math exam, for which he has prepared exhaustively. His best friend and desk partner, asks him to help him cheat on the exam and allow him to copy from his sheet. What would you decide to do in this case?

Some kids would define this act as a gesture of friendship and would allow it, feeling that this is their duty as a 'good friend'.

Others would not, feeling a contradiction between what they believe as integrity and their friendship. In their perception, the value of integrity might be the stronger one, and therefore 'overpower' friendship.

Pleasure VS Personal Expression VS Parent Satisfaction

Let's take another example: A junior high girl that plays the piano for many hours a day. She is very dedicated to her hobby, but yet sometimes feels the contradiction between the time she is expected to devote to the piano and her desire to spend more time with her girlfriends at the mall or just hanging out. The piano is indeed one of her ways to express herself and in that manner very important to her, but so is her social life.

Sometimes, while trying to understand the contradictions between two of our values, especially while dealing with kids, we find other values hidden inside, which involve the need to satisfy the parents. Many times there is a hidden clash between the family values we were taught to live upon, and the ones we actually perform.

 

The identification of our values, and the possible clashed between them,  is exactly the concept behind the new family game, "Al Ma Velama", developed by Shosh Maoz-Arie, an experienced Personal, Business & ADHD Coach from Israel.

 The game, in which kids and families prioritize core values, is a clever, simple, and enjoyable game intended to rehearse real life, while advancing parent-child communication, and reaching out mutually.

The game is a card game, created in order to initiate an open, deliberate, and safe dialogue about values – emanating from play and a pleasurable experience. The Therapeutic cards are a tool, creating the environment for the dialogue to take place.

 The game is simple and friendly and contains 160 cards featuring a visual list of values. As the game progresses, the most important values "appear" up to the surface, allowing each player a real encounter with himself.

The card game allows experiential, undemanding, and fun-filled learning, including the display, sorting, and selection of optional values, focusing, defining goals, and translating them from theory into practice.

The emphasis is on identifying and choosing common values rather than teaching them. It is something that demands true, non-judgmental listening.

The great thing about the family game, besides the quality time, is that in this game, the family meeting must consist of a dialogue with everyone on an equal base.

The questions, which arouse from the game, comprise the principle tool and have much more importance than their answers.

Through play the family members identify their own values, whether and how they affect their lives, whether they implement them, and how they can reach their goals when choosing to act in accordance with them.

The game allows an investigation of the gap that exists between reality and our ideals through an examination of our values, and differentiating between them. In short, it develops awareness of the gap between our values and our actual, day to day behavior.

It's like one mother that has already tried the game told me:

“The game made me really think about what is truly important to me in life. The  

 Topics, such as “controlling myself” – I had never thought about what I can or can’t control. For example, when arguing with a friend, I almost never accept or am even able to accept their position. In conclusion – the game expanded my thinking, and caused me much deliberation, forcing me to decide what I would do and how I would behave in such situations.”

In conclusion, maybe next time, when looking for a new family game to enjoy your quality time with, you might want to consider the value game as a good option for monopoly. developed by Shosh Maoz-Arie, an experienced personal and business coach from Israel

 

 The game, in which kids and families prioritize core values, is a clever, simple, and enjoyable game intended to rehearse real life, while advancing parent-child communication, and reaching out mutually.

The game is a card game, created in order to initiate an open, deliberate, and safe dialogue about values – emanating from play and a pleasurable experience. The cards are a tool, creating the environment for the dialogue to take place.

 The game is simple and friendly and contains 160 cards featuring a visual list of values. As the game progresses, the most important values "appear" up to the surface, allowing each player a real encounter with himself.

The card game allows experiential, undemanding, and fun-filled learning, including the display, sorting, and selection of optional values, focusing, defining goals, and translating them from theory into practice.

The emphasis is on identifying and choosing common values rather than teaching them. It is something that demands true, non-judgmental listening.

The great thing about the family game, besides the quality time, is that in this game, the family meeting must consist of a dialogue with everyone on an equal base.

The questions, which arouse from the game, comprise the principle tool and have much more importance than their answers.

Through play the family members identify their own values, whether and how they affect their lives, whether they implement them, and how they can reach their goals when choosing to act in accordance with them.

The game allows an investigation of the gap that exists between reality and our ideals through an examination of our values, and differentiating between them. In short, it develops awareness of the gap between our values and our actual, day to day behavior.

It's like one mother that has already tried the game told me:

“The game made me really think about what is truly important to me in life. The  

 Topics, such as “controlling myself” – I had never thought about what I can or can’t control. For example, when arguing with a friend, I almost never accept or am even able to accept their position. In conclusion – the game expanded my thinking, and caused me much deliberation, forcing me to decide what I would do and how I would behave in such situations.”

In conclusion, maybe next time, when looking for a new family game to enjoy your quality time with, you might want to consider the value game as a good option for monopoly.

 

, developed by Shosh Maoz-Arie, an experienced personal and business coach from Israel.

 

 The game, in which kids and families prioritize core values, is a clever, simple, and enjoyable game intended to rehearse real life, while advancing parent-child communication, and reaching out mutually.

The game is a card game, created in order to initiate an open, deliberate, and safe dialogue about values – emanating from play and a pleasurable experience. The cards are a tool, creating the environment for the dialogue to take place.

 The game is simple and friendly and contains 160 Therapeutic cards featuring a visual list of values. As the game progresses, the most important values "appear" up to the surface, allowing each player a real encounter with himself.

The card game allows experiential, undemanding, and fun-filled learning, including the display, sorting, and selection of optional values, focusing, defining goals, and translating them from theory into practice.

The emphasis is on identifying and choosing common values rather than teaching them. It is something that demands true, non-judgmental listening.

The great thing about the family game, besides the quality time, is that in this game, the family meeting must consist of a dialogue with everyone on an equal base.

The questions, which arouse from the game, comprise the principle tool and have much more importance than their answers.

Through play the family members identify their own values, whether and how they affect their lives, whether they implement them, and how they can reach their goals when choosing to act in accordance with them.

The game allows an investigation of the gap that exists between reality and our ideals through an examination of our values, and differentiating between them. In short, it develops awareness of the gap between our values and our actual, day to day behavior.

It's like one mother that has already tried the game told me:

“The game made me really think about what is truly important to me in life. The  

 Topics, such as “controlling myself” – I had never thought about what I can or can’t control. For example, when arguing with a friend, I almost never accept or am even able to accept their position. In conclusion – the game expanded my thinking, and caused me much deliberation, forcing me to decide what I would do and how I would behave in such situations.”

In conclusion, maybe next time, when looking for a new family game to enjoy your quality time with, you might want to consider the value game as a good option for monopoly.

 

 

הי, אני שוש מעוז אריה

אני מפתחת כלים טיפוליים ואימוניים

אני מגיעה מתחום האימון ובעברי עסקתי במהלך עבודתי בחברת נס טכנולוגיות,  במטה משאבי האנוש בחברה.

את הכלי הטיפולי רב העוצמה הזה, פיתחתי דווקא במסגרת תפקיד בכיר אישי: דודה המנסה למצוא דרך להעסיק את האחיינים שלה, באחד מימי החופש הגדול, באופן ערכי נטול מסכים.

להבדיל ממשחקים אימוניים וטיפוליים אחרים, משחק זה אינו מיקשה אחת כי אם מובנה משלבי התפתחות, בסיומם…כן, כבר בסיום המשחק הראשון, חווים המשתתפים הבנות עמוקות המתחילות להשפיע על כל יכולות קבלת ההחלטות והפיכת השאיפות להגשמה הלכה למעשה.

מכאן ועד שביעות רצון בחיים והתרת דפוסים שעד כה הובילו לתקיעות בלבד, המרחק קצר.

אתם מוזמנים להצטרף כמאמנים, מטפלים ואנשי מקצוע,  לחוויה אישית שתקדם משמעותית כל אימון וטיפול, ותזניק את המתאמנים והמטופלים כמה צעדים קדימה, לנקודת אל חזור נהדרת איתה יצאו מכם מצוידים נכון לחיים.

אימון אישי לקשב וריכוז - שוש מעוז אריה
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הי, אני שוש מעוז אריה - מאמנת עסקית ואישית

מספרים עליי

נגן וידאו

צפו בהמלצתם של מיכל דליות "סופר נני" ודליק ווליניק

ערכים, מדריכים, קלפים טיפוליים ומוצרים משלימים

אימון להפרעות קשב וריכוז

אימון אישי לקשב וריכוז - שוש מעוז אריה

ערכים כמצפן

כמה פעמים עצרתם לחשוב מהם הערכים החשובים לכם ביותר בחיים? מתי לאחרונה ישבתם ברצינות ותהיתם בקשר לאמונות המובילות את היקרים שלכם בחיים? כמה פעמים ישבתם עם עצמכם ומניתם את הערכים המייצגים את הדרך העסקית שלכם?
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אימון אישי לקשב וריכוז - שוש מעוז אריה

מדריכים

מתנות קטנות - תועלות גדולות
לחץ כאן וקבל מיידית, ישירות אליך למייל, מדריך או קורס בנושא קשב וריכוז או ערכים, לבחירתך. המדריכים והקורסים כוללים טיפים והמלצות, שהכנתי באהבה ומוגשים לך במתנה.
קרא עוד

אימון אישי לקשב וריכוז - שוש מעוז אריה

חנות

בחנות באתר, תוכלו למצוא ערכות קלפים טיפוליים לעבודה עם ערכים בעברית ובאנגלית (למבוגרים וילדים), ערכת למידה אישית להתמודדות עם הפרעות קשב וריכוז ועוד. בחנות ניתן גם לבצע תשלום עבור השתתפות בסדנאות.
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